Everyone has their preferences whether it be love, loyalty, respect, finances, sex, etc...the list goes on and on.
What is most important in a relationship to you and why?
What are your dealbreakers?
I think sometimes we enter relationships not being fully aware of what matters to us most. When we do so, we leave room for disappointment and regrets.
Chime in below and let's hear where we all stand on this topic!
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Happy birthday to my special special person! ♥️♥️♥️ My confidant, friend and love. One of the most dynamic people I know. Crazy smart, snarky as hell and one heck of a people person. Truly blest to have this lovely man in my life...and seeing as this is one day I can get away with putting him center stage on social media, please go ahead and wish him happy birthday...so I can relish his embarrassed discomfort as he reads this! 🤣🤣🎉🎉🎉✨✨✨ .
P.S. Realizing we barely have any pics together these days without his lil twin in it..case in point, this third shot #toddlerlife 🤣🤣🤣✨✨
I read wide, so this I know it’s true. Half the stuff I can never see myself in, but the knowledge and mind of another creative is always intriguing. And once I allow myself experience the story I’m in book heaven.
When my first novel released, a reader asked that my houses, cars, careers are all “foreign” the reader was bewildered that there weren’t huts, zebras, lions and women with wrappers on their chest...(true story, this was 2013)
My contemporary characters are 100% African and have traveled far and wide. Some live in Diaspora, some back home.
My stories will always have food, music, style, cultural heritage and language. However the themes are universal to all humans. Faith. Hope & Love.
A lot can be said on this especially regarding the plight of black women as well as black men in America. So consider it and communicate your feelings, because if I go up yonder to see the Good Lord, real soon. DONT be down here sad AF because you withheld my Plumerias. I will be mindful too on my end 😏.#thisgofor#stronglikes #too#loveanybody#blackloverocks#lovethem#blackloveisreal #loveyou#blackloveisreal#lovelovelove #blackloveexists #lovematters#dontbesad#arronhall#said#restyourhead#onmytattooedchest#iknowitfeelsrealgood#oohweebabynoneedtobeaffraid #idigress#fuqit#loveyoubae#😘
While I don’t deny its existence, I don’t desire to wax tales of oppression, corruption and injustices that plague the continent of Africa.
I desire to take you on an adventure through the continent. My aim is you come away edified, educated on something new and fully entertained. My stories span Africa and the African diaspora.
The continent is so much more than pot bellied, malnourished kids with flies perching around. That’s what they want you to see.😉
Africans have happily ever afters too, and my job is to show you that and the reckless love of God.
#Repost@kingjames The only reason why I can do what I do at the highest level both on and off the floor is because my best friend got my back regardless the outcome! I’m just the car, she’s the engine! Appreciate you Wonder Woman aka Queen 👸🏽! @mrs_savannahrj ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ #BlackLoveExists